October 28, 2017 - Lifestyle Basics Class &  Annual Halloween Party 

November 10, 2017 - Meet & Greet

December 2, 2017 - Lifestyle Basics Class &  Annual Christmas Theme Party (tickets not yet available)

December 31, 2017 - Lifestyle Basics Class &  Annual New Year's Eve Party (tickets not yet available)

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Meet & Greet (non-play event)

*Single Men - If you haven't been to the Lifestyle Basics class and/or cleared things through us, please do not bother showing up, your presence is not welcome.* 

Come on out to Sh’booms Night Club and help us let loose! Let’s get out of the house and shake our booties! It’s a Meet & Greet that will be rock'n to DJ Ben E as he spin 2 decades of music! Sh’booms Night Club also offers a great dinner buffet, the cost of which is included in their small cover charge.

We have a reserved the area behind the DJ, so please arrive early if you wish to get a seat with us. We recommend arriving early if you are haven’t been to one of our events before. This will give us a chance to speak with you before the music starts and all the fun begins. For those that will be arriving later, there will also be plenty of seating adjacent to our reserved area.

Time: 6:00pm ‘til 2:00am (if you decide to stay that long)

• Buffet: 6pm - 8pm
• DJ starts at 8pm sharp!

Where: Sh’booms Night club 2410 San Ramon Valley Blvd. Suite 130 San Ramon, CA 94583

Cost: Sh'booms Night Club charges CandY's Adventures group members a cover of $10.00 per person, so please be sure to mention CandY's Adventures when paying at the door. Otherwise, the cover charge is $16 per person.

Dress code: Men, dress to impress (collared shirt and dress shoes required for men). Ladies, wear those sexy and sassy outfits. Full details are available on Sh’booms Night Club website.

When you arrive, please come find us behind the DJ booth, where we will be handing out wrist bands. The wrist bands are so we can identify each other, as we will be mixing it up with the local Vanillas, sharing the dance floor and bar. This is especially helpful for new folks attending the event.

Classes (non-play event) - Starts at 6:30pm same day as the House Party

Everyone is new at some point.  Even those that have played with others a time or two are not likely to be up on the common nuances of the Lifestyle.  New ones tend to have a ton of questions, many fears, and sadly a lot of disinformation.  To help educate those considering giving the Lifestyle a try, we host a basics class once a month.  Single men, single women, and couples are all invited to come.  The topics we cover include proper behavior, best practices for approaching others, safety, the difference between aggressive vs assertive, the right attitude for attending events, and more.  Classes are not held in a stuffy classroom, but rather in our very own living room, a relaxed and casual environment.  While we do feel this is a class that everyone should attend at least once, attendance is required only for single males that wishes to attend our events.   

House Parties (play optional event)

*Single Men - If you haven't been to the Lifestyle Basics class, please do not purchase tickets.  Doing so will net you an immediate and permanent ban to all CandY's Adventures events.* 

Regardless if you’re new or a veteran, you are welcome to come enjoy a night of fun! This party, like all of our parties, is geared for all experience levels and is play optional. We provide a positive and relaxed atmosphere so that you can enjoy yourselves and explore within your own limits. Our average turn out is 55 people, average age of 43.

For theme parties, come in costume or dress as sexy as you are comfortable, costumes are not required to attend and get funky! If you wish to make wardrobe changes throughout the night, feel free. Just come have a fantastic time!  

Time: 8pm to 1am-ish  

• 7:15pm to 8pm is our open forum. If you are new or have questions, we recommend that you attend. This is always a good way to get the party started. You will meet other people in the process of learning the ropes and any questions you may have will hopefully be answered. This will also give you the ability to grow with the energy of the party. As people arrive, you will be able to have many conversations and avoid potentially feeling left out.
• Doors close at 9:30 pm, so if you are going to be late please let us know.

Where: Livermore, off Emerald street

Who: Couples, single women, and select single men. If you are a couple and you have a single man you want to bring, please contact us for further info.

Cash at the door donation:

• Couples $40-60
• Single Females $10-20
• Single Males $65-100 (Limit 3, prior attendance to our lifestyle class and being in our good standing is required.)

We provide: Condoms & lube in all the rooms, shower in case you need to clean up (no play in showers please), outdoor fireplace and smoking area (please keep your voices low outside, no one is interested in a visit from the LPD), ice, and water.

Please bring: A dish or appetizer to share, favorite drink & mixer, towels for cleaning yourself up, a waterproof blanket/sheet (if you’re a squirter), and any special items you might need for your playing experience.

There are several hotels within 3 miles of the event, if you would like to avoid a long drive home or want to have your own private after party. Exact address will be given out the day before out event.

Please confirm that you will be attending as soon as possible, as we often have a waiting list. Thank you so much in advance!

House Rules:

Failure to adhere to these rules will result in you being asked to leave and being banned from future events.

1. Always ask before you touch
2. No means NO! 
3. Be aware of peoples boundaries, never assume, always ask first
4. No aggressive behavior allowed – do not be pushy in social areas or bedrooms
5. Do not loiter in the bedrooms, or hover in hopes of being asked to join.  Viewing is permitted no more that 5min per room. No touching or otherwise engaging with anyone playing without verbal consent from them and their play partner(s)
6. Nudity allowed in bedrooms only.  Social areas you must be clothed
7. Be courteous and respectful
8. This is not a pay for play event – you may or may not play
9. Have zero expectation and make friends
10.  Single men – show up with your date and you will leave with your date

• Refunds on tickets available up to 72 hours before the party, after which all sales are final.   
• CandY's Adventures reserves the right to reject any sales at any time for any reason.